Episode 43 Are You Dying Inside: How Men’s Hidden Pain Leads to a Slow Death

What happens when God calls you to confront your deepest pain to help others find their way out of their darkness? In this episode, I share a vulnerable truth: God often meets us in our lowest moments, not to leave us there, but to lead us to His light and purpose.

Following a profound coaching session, I realized that God is calling me to meet others where they are—right in the heart of their pain, just as He met me in mine. This isn’t an easy journey. It means revisiting my own pit, the darkest place where I almost lost everything, and using that experience to guide others toward the peak of their promised land.

For many men, this pain comes from the secret lies we carry—the ones we hide from the world but slowly destroy us from within. It’s a slow death, and I’ve seen its devastating effects on others. I’ve lived it. But God’s light is powerful, and He can bring redemption and healing to even the darkest corners of our lives.

In this episode, I speak directly to men who feel trapped in their pain and secrets. I share my story of transformation, the years it took me to cross that gap, and how God’s grace led me from the pit to the peak.

If you’ve ever felt like the darkness is too much to bear, know this: there is a way out. God’s light is waiting to shine through, and on the other side of your pain is the life you were meant to live.

Let’s journey together from the pit to the promised land.